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Motherhood or marriage is never an excuse to lose your humanity

Being a good wife doesn't make you a good woman

You can be a great mother and still be a terrible human being

Even Serial killers and ritualists have families who would give their lives for them 

The fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram terrorists have mothers who will die for them too

The devil didn't make them, they were born, loved at some point, and got twisted then demonized 

Motherhood or marriage is never an excuse to lose your humanity 

Lying and defending your husband when he is accused of rape, knowing fully well that he is guilty is a good example of a bad wife

Covering your son's rape charges instead of reporting him and allowing him face the law, is you being a protective mother and a demonic human being 

Doting on your kids and giving them all they want while subjecting your maid to abuse, hunger and maltreatment is you being a good mom but an evil human being 

I read the story of a girl who was constantly abused by her madam and maltreated until the husband started raping her to the knowledge of his wife, yet instead of helping her and probably reporting the man, the madam tortured and threatened her not to tell anyone from 13 years old till she grew up.
Today she is 21 and she's now calling both of them out. 

I have seen a mother shield her own husband from the police after he raped her 4 years old daughter repeatedly, his own biological daughter, she dropped the charges because the family asked her to... Her solution wasn't even to leave the animal, rather, she stopped leaving her child alone at home with him, and started backing her to work as a washer woman, washing people's clothes. 

She still stayed married to her jobless iron bender, and get this... She got pregnant for another pikin! 

These wives, mothers, women are not victims, they are cohorts and co-conspirators with their 'man' 

So let's get our facts right, you can be a good wife, a wonderful mom and still be a witch 

Being a good wife does not make you a good person 

Being a great mom doesn't mean you are a virtuous woman 

Even witches breastfeed, remember! 

Never get it twisted 


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