The Authorpreneur

This is my own two cent! It is not the responsibility of the boyfriend or husband to cater to the financial needs and lack, of his spouse family  The fact that I'm in a relationship with you doesn't mean I have to train your brothers and sisters in school or complete your father's uncompleted building  The man should only be responsible to his wife and their children, not her father, mother or siblings and relatives  Except he chooses to freely support and assist, not shoulder...there's a difference. Otherwise, he's not obligated to perform in that capacity.  Neither is it the responsibility of the woman to assume the role of a dishwasher and chef whenever she visits the man's family home  This rule applies to both genders.  Yes!!!  It is not even the duty of the woman to cater to the financial demands of her own immediate family! I shudder when I see young girls as young as 21 taking care of their not so aged parents and younger ones  In fact, I ...

This is not meant to kiss your ass but to kick your ass out of that emotional pit you dug or were thrown into. I didn't write what you want to hear but what you need to hear. Serial Ranter No matter how broken you are, there's someone out there who is willing and waiting to fix you up and patch every broken piece of you. Bullshit!!! You see this shit right here, is the reason why we are where we are in most relationships, which is mostly lost and nowhere good. Relationships aren't hospitals. It's not a rehab center. By God, it's not a fucking mechanic shop. You do not go in broken, expecting to be fixed. Except it's a doctor-patient relationship. Which it isn't. You go in whole and complete. It is the combined wholesomeness from both partners that make it worthy. Only a twisted and selfish mind will go into a relationship in a broken state and expect to ruin someone else's wholesomeness. It really takes two to tango, not...