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Dear Queens

Queens, never let the depth of a man's pocket determine the size of your daily bread. Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne

The Tribe Culture

Chapter 3 Don't be Tribalistic! Be Vibalistic! What's Vibalistic Simple Do not engage with those that do not vibe with you. Vibe with those who share your values. There's vibalism in the digital tribe and community. Some individuals won't vibe to your tribe because they are not your followers and don't share the same values as your community. Just like tribalism exists, vibalism must exist in the digital space. The difference is, tribalism is evil and wrong. But you see vibalism...it is pure and necessary. Else your tribe will be a chaotic one. Cyberbulling and hatespeech amongst tribe loyalists and haters will run rampant in your tribe. Don't mistake having an audience as having a tribe. You can have a thousand friends yet score only 10 likes and 5 comments on your posts. But equate that to a hundred followers and you will score a 1000 likes and more than a 100 comments. How... It's not magic. It's tribe! Your...

You are the only one of you...Make You Count!

You could be anything You should be anything You can be anything But you choose to be nothing. You choose to be with a man that beats you and treats you like trash. You choose to be with a man that ruins your mascara in a flash. You choose to cry every night and beg every morning. You choose to manage a man that does not love you. You choose to wash a grown ass man's clothes because society and tradition added cloth washing to your job description. You choose to travel hours to cook till your hands bleed for a man that will go and cut onions and boil meat for another woman. You choose to drop your certificate and graduation gown, opting instead to tie wrapper and look after the children full time. You choose to be nothing but a housewife. You could be a queen. You should be a boss. You can slay a dragon. But you choose to live like a dog with a he-goat. You could be a manager with your skill and IQ. You could be a Dr, PHD holder, MSc holder, HO...