Some people are just too toxic, even to themselves
They are nice and sweet
Super friendly and might even put you first before them
But the level of toxicity they carry inside is way too much
They always find ways to come out the victim in any conversation
No matter how positive the conversation started, they will come out a victim before the end
You might be having a neutral convo, yet somehow they become a victim, helpless and hopeless, you start preaching and trying to heal them
Turning you into a therapist or a psychologist when you just want to chat
Have you ever began a conversation with gusto and so much energy, yet it ended with you feeling so drained and exhausted
Run from such people
No matter how much advise you give them, you can't help them
They will never take your advise
They only want to hear it and feel the sympathy oozing from your insides
They are addicted to pity
That's their favorite party, pityparty
Even if there is no reason to pity them, they find ways to come out a victim so you can pity them
They are hooked on pity
Run, because it is exhausting being friends with someone who always play the victim in every circumstance.
If you are such a person
You are toxic and an abuser
You are not a victim
You are a pity junkie
Get help from a professional
Else you will lose all your friends and finally meet your match
Those who will ride on your pity and turn you into their victims
Just like there are people who love to be pitied
There are others who love to punish and get aroused when you are at their mercy
When that match happens...
It is finished!
No amount of prayer and fasting will save you
Because you are so hooked on the victim card, your abuser becomes both your Savior and your executioner.
Get help, not another friend to complain and whine to
Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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