Everything in life is built with a structure
Sometimes, the structure is people
Doing it alone and doing it on your own isn't the same thing
You can do it on your own but you mustn't do it alone
If not having any friends is your excuse
Then whose fault is that?
Most people believe they are not social or friendly enough to make friends
But they have people they they chat and laugh with online
They stay up all night, chatting and socializing, flirting and fraternizing
Nobody is really alone, we are just lonely
The truth is, we attract who and what we are
But... We can attract who we want to become even better
It all boils down to creating the right space that such people can exist comfortably in
Someone said, create heaven and angels will come... Create hell, you'll only have the devil and his demons
I needed friends who thought and reasoned like me
Because the life of a writer can sometimes be lonely and quiet
So I needed friends like me who were writers...
Friends who understood words and won't freak out when suddenly in the middle of a conversation, I bring out my pen and jotter and create with words
I didn't put up an 'ad' asking for them, I simply started writing stories, articles and experiences on my timeline, even went ahead to upload my works on other writers group I joined
It didn't take long, some amazing friends who think and write like me came knocking
I created the atmosphere and they came.
Are you creating the right atmosphere to attract the kind of friends you need?
Or you are just living in another person's box, wishing you could break out!
Firstly, you need to recognize that you are in a box
Next, you need to visualize where you are going to
You can't break out of what you don't know, and you can't break out to where you don't know
You won't have a type, if you don't know the type of friends you need.
Create the atmosphere you need, then the rain you deserve will fall.
Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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