It shocks me sometimes the way married women think that just because they are married, they are bestowed with some superpowers all single ladies are dying to have
You see them giving advise to young single ladies like, don't worry you will find the right man
Don't talk too loud, don't complain too much, stop chasing every man, don't be too hard, learn how to cook his native soup, learn now to speak his language...
Be kind to his family, cook for his friends, wash for his younger brother and sister, lower your standards... Bla bla bla
Somehow they just feel every single lady's dream is to be married like them
You got married, congrats
But why do you think you are happier and more successful than spinsters
90 out of 100 married women are unhappy
Half or more are not faithful in their marriages
The other half are not in love with their husbands anymore
Why on earth will someone envy that?
I'm not saying it's a bad thing to be married, but don't wish others marriage like it's Christmas or birthday
Mind your marriage and let others live in peace
The worst is when you start cutting off all your spinster friends
Suddenly you feel like they are trying to seduce your husband
Or take him away from you
And if you see the husband eh
Sometimes it's one with the neck of a lizard and body of a cockroach
This is the one someone is trying to steal
A piece of average!
Suddenly all the conversations turn to my husband this, my husband that, my husband said, my husband did not say...
Las Las you will go home to the husband, and he is Mike Tyson
Instead of rubbing it on the faces of the single by choice ladies, yapping about how marriage is sweet, how you have to rush home to cook eguisi and vegetable soup for your king
Why don't you just have a good time and talk like a woman with a purpose
A woman with her own substance
An independent yet married woman with her own goals and ambition
Not just her husband's material
Mothers, stop raising husband materials
Raise purpose driven, smart and ambitious women
Raise girls not wives
Raise women not mothers
Raise Queens not housewives, whose sole goal and purpose isn't marriage but the good life and it doesn't come attached to a man.
Learn to have conversations that somehow isn't around endorsing or worshipping the male gender
Have discussions that promotes the woman as a goal getter and a successful career woman.
Have conversations about endorsing your own success not just your husband's success
Don't just rush home to cook eguisi
Rush out to win that contract and score that business
Don't raise husband materials
Don't be one either
Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
You see them giving advise to young single ladies like, don't worry you will find the right man
Don't talk too loud, don't complain too much, stop chasing every man, don't be too hard, learn how to cook his native soup, learn now to speak his language...
Be kind to his family, cook for his friends, wash for his younger brother and sister, lower your standards... Bla bla bla
Somehow they just feel every single lady's dream is to be married like them
You got married, congrats
But why do you think you are happier and more successful than spinsters
90 out of 100 married women are unhappy
Half or more are not faithful in their marriages
The other half are not in love with their husbands anymore
Why on earth will someone envy that?
I'm not saying it's a bad thing to be married, but don't wish others marriage like it's Christmas or birthday
Mind your marriage and let others live in peace
The worst is when you start cutting off all your spinster friends
Suddenly you feel like they are trying to seduce your husband
Or take him away from you
And if you see the husband eh
Sometimes it's one with the neck of a lizard and body of a cockroach
This is the one someone is trying to steal
A piece of average!
Suddenly all the conversations turn to my husband this, my husband that, my husband said, my husband did not say...
Las Las you will go home to the husband, and he is Mike Tyson
Instead of rubbing it on the faces of the single by choice ladies, yapping about how marriage is sweet, how you have to rush home to cook eguisi and vegetable soup for your king
Why don't you just have a good time and talk like a woman with a purpose
A woman with her own substance
An independent yet married woman with her own goals and ambition
Not just her husband's material
Mothers, stop raising husband materials
Raise purpose driven, smart and ambitious women
Raise girls not wives
Raise women not mothers
Raise Queens not housewives, whose sole goal and purpose isn't marriage but the good life and it doesn't come attached to a man.
Learn to have conversations that somehow isn't around endorsing or worshipping the male gender
Have discussions that promotes the woman as a goal getter and a successful career woman.
Have conversations about endorsing your own success not just your husband's success
Don't just rush home to cook eguisi
Rush out to win that contract and score that business
Don't raise husband materials
Don't be one either
Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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