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Grow...Don't Just Wet!!!

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I suffered with him when he was a nobody, I was there all the while but today he has forgotten me.

I brought myself down and agreed to marry him when he was poor, now he has become rich, he doesn't remember me.

I gave him my school fees and ended up dropping out of school for him, today he is living with another woman.

I stole my parents house rent for him to take care of his sick mother, today they have abandoned me, they have found a virgin from the village for him.

I have done several abortions for him, now he wants to marry a virgin, God will punish him.

Aren't you tired of all this narratives?

Stop watching those Nigerian movies where the woman will sacrifice her life trying to make her husband rich, without doing any skillful or meaningful work for herself and after he has become successful, he will end up falling in love with Rita Dominic, while Chioma chukwuka will end up in church, fasting and praying...

Now watch this....she is not fasting and praying to become rich, she is not going out hard, working or learning a new skill...Guess what she is fasting and praying for?

She is fasting and praying for her husband to come back to her!!!!

To come back to nothing, because that's all she is...a kind piece of nothing.

She forgot to build herself while building him.

Sisters, listen and listen good, marriage is not a payment for kindness.

Marriage is not a reward a man pays you with for years of sticking with him.

Marriage is not a compensation for sacrifice.

Women are fond of doing everything for a man and nothing for themselves.

It is not love...

Sister it is laziness!

You are too lazy to be ambitious.

So you hide under your fear and push the man instead to be all you can be and more, but can't.

No man, no human being will find mediocrity and poverty attractive.

By neglecting yourself, you remained poor and average while he grew into success and prosperity.

While build a man's future with him and neglect yours?

While give up your life, education, career, ambition and dignity for a man?

Why not build yourself to be a Queen and invite him into your castle.

If you wanna be a helper, be a rich one.

I stopped feeling sorry for women who sacrifice their lives for a man and ended up being dumped or left behind.

He owes you nothing but thank you!

He doesn't owe you his life and marital vows!

He doesn't owe you a trip down the aisle.

He owes you nothing but gratitude.

A man is a man and a woman is a woman.

You are a tree!!!

You are not water...

Stop wetting others except yourself, and start growing.

Grow don't just wet!!!

Don't stop growing because you want to build your man.

Let him and his family build him.

Go and build yourself too.

Build yourself first then you can build another better for Chrissakes!!!!

Pursue your own dreams!

Let him support you too if he really loves you.

No sane or responsible man will allow the woman he loves sacrifice or pause her life to help him succeed.

That is a selfish love!

A true man will work hand in hand with you, and support you as you support him together.

Pursue your own interest, don't die on another man's matter.

Have sense this 21st century, Jesus is coming soon to remain stupid.

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