Date Your Survival Even if it means Dating Your Rival...Just Do It!

Dating is like flying, you need training.

If you are not qualified and licensed, you will crash.

If not immediately, eventually. Just like the joke where the cleaner is cleaning the cockpit and sees a manual on flying and decides to play pilot, he successfully takes the plane up but when it was time to bring it down again, he realized that part hasn't been written yet. Of course we can all guess the outcome.

You can't do it on your own.

You don't test-fly someone's heart.

You don't play with someone's heart until you are licensed to.

You don't learn with someone's emotions.

Be someone you can date!

Set a standard

Make a standard for yourself

Be a standard and date your standard.

Date your equal

Don't date below your standard

Don't date beneath you

It's not pride, it's attitude!

You are dating your survival not your leisure.

The quicker you get this, the better for you.

Relationship is really made for selfish interests, not dual or mutual goals. Of course the end game is mutual partnership, but when you see a girl, you don't think about what you can do for her but what she can do for you and to you and vice versa.

For some guys it's mostly sex, how sweet she will be in bed since she is very fine on the outside or how cool she would make him feel beside her in the midst of his friends...

For some ladies, it's how much he will bring to the table to support and upgrade her financial status, or how well he will protect and keep her safe.

You don't see someone and imagine how great you will make them be in the future, or how well you will help them achieve their personal goals in life...that part comes towards the ending for some and never for others.

Date your standard, if you must disobey this principle, let it be because you chose to go above your standard but never, never, never, never and never beneath your standard.

"Who then would date beneath them if you are advising everybody to date their standard and never below, so those that want to date above, why should I accept when you say we shouldn't date below?

The truth is, when you make a standard for yourself, you become that standard, so if you choose to go above your standard, automatically, you have upgraded to that standard you chose to date.

That's how the brain and body works, it's not a machine, it doesn't need a software to be downloaded for it to upgrade, the brain is all the software the body needs.
Once you think it then you slowly and eventually become it.

Date your survival and even if it means dating your rival, just do it.

If not, you will crash, and the bad thing about plane crashes is, you won't die alone.

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