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Be Intentional with your friendship

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This period, we need to re-evaluate and reflect on our choices and decisions regarding the company we keep or the love we hold dear. 

One virus is holding the entire world to ransom!

One virus is so powerful to pause the whole world.

You can't go out, eat well, hang out with friends, some people are not being paid, others are hungry, life is on a standstill...

This is how some people have been living their lives all along without noticing, just because they gave one person the power to dictate and control their whole existence. 

We all have a coronavirus in our lives, the only difference is the virus is human and has a name. 

That one bad friend or toxic lover is a virus that has deprived you of sleep and peace of mind for so long.

You feel like you can't do without them because they make you feel like you are incomplete without them. 

Cutting you off from friends, family  and even food... You felt isolated long before the global lockdown was effected and compulsory isolation was instituted.

Some people go as far as deciding what you eat, wear and the company you keep, they have already forced social distancing on you...

They even have your Facebook password and access to your whatsApp and text messages!!!

Even your parents can't touch your phone, but one uncle has the power to read and chat on your behalf.

Any relationship that won't increase your bank account legitimately or give you peace and rest of mind, abort it. 

It could be a family member(s), childhood friend, colleague, neighbor or even soulmate... It doesn't matter...

If thinking about them or their presence causes you to panic, worry or feel sick, it's time to abort and loose the connection for life.

Coronavirus has made life more clearer for most...the partner you thought you couldn't live without or breathe without, you have spent close to 4 weeks without them and you are alive!!! 

The most important thing we need is Food and water in the end, not some lover or Friendship.

You have survived without that man or woman for 3 weeks,  you have stayed without seeing all your friends, you couldn't have survived without food and water this long.

So if there is a person in your life right now who shouldn't be in your life... Abort them immediately before the lockdown is lifted. 

The vaccine against toxic connection is abortion.

Be intentional with your friendship and relationships.

These people don't come into our lives by accident, they were invited. 

Abort them from your life and be free.

Nobody who isn't you is worth stressing and losing sleep over.

The world is already sick, don't let your own world decay and rot when you have the cure.


Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne 

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