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Sex for Grade or sex for Grace



Well, it’s no news that university lecturers have been pressuring and harassing our beautiful sisters and daughters to sleep with them and graduate, or refuse and carry over.

A lecturer in his 50's was caught red handed soliciting for sex from an undercover journalist, posing as a 17 years old.

Several eye witness accounts gives credence to this cancer that has gone unchecked for years because the same people that are supposed to fight this filth are stained and soaked in the same stench.

Like the bible said...can the devil fight himself?

Report the devil who has been caught to another devil who has and might never be caught, because he is loved openly and respected openly.

He has been positioned above mere mortals because he stands tall academically and taller religiously.

Hidden under the mask of the family, society and the church

Such a saint can never do wrong.

Now, this isn't about religion!!!

If I see one more post making the sex for grades scandal about religion...

By God, I'll puke.

So I ask, what has religion got to do with this?

Nothing

Yeah, he is a pastor but he is also a lecturer and a father.

Blame the academic institution or the family unit.

When the rape saga went viral, simpletons and average Nigerians went to protest in churches.

Get this, Nigerians still went to the church on Sunday to worship as usual and defend their man of God, and again it was still Nigerians that barred and ensured people didn't make videos or take photos of their beloved man of God.

Nigerians will still drink bleach if they are commanded, and still pay their pastor to call God on phone and find out if their name is in the book of life.

The problem isn't religion, the problem is people.

Sex for grade is not a religious problem, it is a man made problem.

God made man, man didn't make God, but man made religion.

Anything man made is flawed.

Sex isn't flawed!

Man didn't make sex, in fact sex makes man, except you are Jesus which clearly none of us are.

Normalizing a problem in this part of the world especially our academic institution, police force and political field, is what has blurred the lines in terms of good and bad, now predators can comfortably cross the lines because there are no visible clear lines, just blurry borders.

Our mind has been so conditioned by religion and tradition, we are constantly living in a perpetual traumatized reality.

This is why SARS go on a killing and robbery spree and nobody shouts outside Facebook and Instagram because their victims are not the child of a politician, or a celebrity but an average student.

Now let’s continue.

So when a girl who wears short skirt and crop top, comes out and files a report that the saint you worship is actually the devil himself, you blame her and bind her as the demon that has been pursuing you all your life.

Even the police will question and interrogate her to the point that she begins to question if indeed she didn't cajole and in fact rape the  perpetuator herself.

Dominant among these lecturers, are men who couldn't get the woman of their dreams when they were younger, now they have a golden opportunity to use their authority and abuse their office.

Or just the low key, safe playing serial womanizers who will sleep with anything and anyone.

While to a large extent, this is the norm, there’s also the school of thought that defends this atrocious anomaly with the sick excuse that these ladies ask for it by dressing indecently.

By God, it’s sad when this weak defense comes from a man but when it comes from a fellow woman, it’s sickening and disheartening and this is why patriarchy reigns supreme and continues to exist in a smart world with smarter phones than people.

Yeah, we agree some ladies are too lazy intellectually to read and pass and so they position themselves to be slept with by these randy old dogs with degrees, empowering the lazy ones not to read...

But to justify the actions of these lecturers and mock the victims who didn’t ask for this, yet suffers mostly on indecent dressing, and the few girls who see nothing wrong in using their body to get fairly good grades, isn’t just sad and sinful but witchcraft.

So if you are out there and among those blaming the actions of the so called lecturers and teachers because this activity happens not just in our universities but falls down to both Secondary and Primary schools, if you are one of those insignificant piece of nothing blaming the girls and their dressing, put your hands on your chest right now and say this…”I am a witch, nothing but a witch, so help me God.”



Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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www.ofunneceo.blogspot.com

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