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Don't Sell Yourself Short For A Long Term Relationship

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Relationships are businesses!

Plain and simple!!!

To have a mature and productive relationship you can understand, you need to have a sound business mind.

Else...your relationship is damned from the get-go.

If you don't understand your relationship, you are being cheated already.

Just like businesses, a relationship sole goal is conversion.

Most ladies want to convert their boyfriend's to husbands.

Some guys want to convert the woman they love to wife.

Other girls just want to convert the pot belly, rich looking zaddy to sugar daddy.

The handsome stranger wants to convert the beautiful damsel to fuck mate.

The call girl wants to convert the guy that loves patronizing call girls to customer.

Yahoo boys want to convert the oyibo to maga.

Everybody wants something that caters to their interest.

Sexual or financial!

In the end, either it's sex, money, both or companionship.

We are all in the business of conversion, one way or the other

So when you strike or initiate a conversation, marketing and negotiation has begun.

Conversation is the currency that ties and reveals the value of the person of interest.

Some are good at it.

Others are very good.

Some are poorly skilled.

If you think you are neutral, you are a product on the shelf!

Someone, somewhere is already pricing you.

It could be your neighbors son that always smiles at you, or even his father.

The customer you buy lace materials and other quality goods from.

Maybe your landlady whose husband is aged and never around.

That your customer in the market who is known to be aggressive, but always sweet with you.

Or your boss in the office, perhaps?

Even your colleague at work.

Finally, your church member or the choir Master.

Better pick a side or one will be selected for you.

You will end up a product except you understand and learn the business of relationship.

Then you will be at an advantage point to strike the deal on your own terms.

Sales happen at different points in life.

Most times you don't even know you are selling or buying.

Don't sell yourself short by being ignorant.

Don't buy crap either by being desperate.

The second you wake up and walk out the front door, uncle, aunty, business has started.

Always think conversion.

It is the next step from stranger to whatever destination you want to ship to.

Whether friendship, relationship, or courtship.

It all starts from sale.

Never sell yourself short.

Put a premium on your character.

It is your strongest marketing suit and strategy.

Have a premium worth, it cost nothing yet it's of premium standard.

Don't sell yourself short for a long term relationship.
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