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You are only useful as long as you are useful.

In other words, you are only important to people as long as you are useful to them.

That's why it is Paramount that you be your own best friend and lover, because no one else will love you more than you love yourself.

Self love has and will always be the truest realest best kind of love.

Self love is agape love and because we are God's, we are capable of it.

We are God's in flesh and bones.

So, be selfish with your love.

Be your number one fan.

Ask yourself this...

Why do we work, hustle and struggle?

For our survival!

So why is your survival better than mine?

Because it is all man for himself!

That's why your closest friend will become your worst enemy because you didn't give him your charger to charge his phone which battery percentage is 45% whereas yours is 15%.

The only way to stay useful and successful is not to bank your emotions and decisions on the approval or opinion of others.

You don't need any third party validation.

You are a God in flesh and bones.

God's don't require permission the way the Lion doesn't need the opinion of a sheep.

You are a first class citizen.

You are above second class validation.

Their opinions are beneath you.

So make their opinion your heel and walk on water, whatever doesn't drown you, will make you swim better.



Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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www.ofunneceo.blogspot.com

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