That's why we permit a man to Lord over us till there isn't any shred of dignity left between our breasts.
A woman with all her education and qualifications, would seek and beg for approval from a mortal, whose duty is to her, and her happiness.
Where success and comfort is bargained under the illusion of true love.
What is true and what is false?
I'll tell you... Truth is freewill...
False is slavery...
Just manage, one day e go better...This is false!
Remember, for better for worse...This is also false!
It's Bullshit wrapped in love... Bullshit!
Now even the pastors are redeeming themselves.
Don't marry a man who has nothing, they preach.
Let her who has ears, hear!
It's worse for her to marry without any substance too.
If you think it's only the man who needs to have Something, then you are nothing but a piece of nothing.
Don't marry a mistake!
A man that needs to grant you approval to buy your own house, get a better job, start a more lucrative business or travel out for work related purposes... Is a mistake!
Most women live there lives from one prison to the next, till they die and las las go to hell.
From a home where the father and mother guard you like prison wardens, watch your every move and censor your very existence.
Yet expect you to be married to a perfect man
And so, las las you are pushed into the claws of a Yoruba demon...(being metaphorical not tribalistic)
Then the husband becomes a MIX of daddy and mummy, raised to power 2.
Better late than never I say.
Better never than fatal I Stan!
Don't wait till you are both old and on his dying bed, he begs for forgiveness and redemption.
Redeem yourself if you already made the mistake, and wait for forgiveness from outside or inside a better life.
Break every chain of traditional, cultural or societal algorithm, persecuting you for wanting your happiness.
Be the Michael Scofield of the Union and escape.
Employ all forces of nature at your disposal and war this evil, see it for what it is.
Never justify mediocrity for submission
Never mistake patience for loyalty
Don't settle in Nigeria if there is a better alternative
Don't settle for a Nigerian since there is a better option
Settling for less is bad but settling down with a lesser being, is just plain suicide.
The world owes you nothing, except what you say it does.
If you think marriage is the key to achieving happiness and fulfilment, clearly you have never tasted Pure Bliss biscuit.
Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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www.ofunneceo.blogspot.com
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