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Own it before you loan it!



Most of us in this part of the world are saddled with so much responsibilities we feel like a horse, and u know what happens to horses, they are used and used and used until they are broken down with burden.
Beasts of burdens and yet responsibilities, cries and demands from mum, dad, family members, cousins and relatives have broken us down before we had a chance to build ourselves up.

We forget that to give first you must own and to own you must build and to build you must grieve.

There will always be relatives, families, friends and the poor who need from you, but if we don't grieve and build and then own before we give, if we jump from grieving to Loaning without building and owing, we will collapse so fast we will end up grieving again and might never own to give.

We need to own it first before we can loan it.
The best way to help your family isn't by grieving yourself to give, it's by building yourself till you own it and then give it..

Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne
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